I want to be respectful but if they say they don’t care what pronouns I use for them, that feels like it puts the decision on me to choose what to call them and I guess I would probably default to “they” because choosing a gender for them feels weird… am I wrong?

  • shapesandstuff@feddit.de
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    10 months ago

    Aye good advice :)

    If anything I’d go by what they’re actively choosing to present, i never do that guessing game of assigned at birth.