I want to be respectful but if they say they don’t care what pronouns I use for them, that feels like it puts the decision on me to choose what to call them and I guess I would probably default to “they” because choosing a gender for them feels weird… am I wrong?

  • TexMexBazooka@lemm.ee
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    10 months ago

    Signaling. From a respect perspective I just call people what they want to be called, but I will rarely apologize for misgendering someone accidentally.