• Magicalus@discuss.tchncs.de
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    5 months ago

    My highschool has a club that is basically just group therapy for guys only. As a regular attendee, it kicks ass.

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      5 months ago

      OMG it’s so good to hear that this is changing. Twenty years ago, in college, I responded to flyers around campus about a support group forming. The therapist refused because obviously the support group was only for women. No mention on the flyers. She was surprised I tried to sign up and said I’d make everyone uncomfortable.

      I know we have a ways to go but I’m glad there’s even a thought that maaaaaybe men need and can benefit from support, too?

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      5 months ago

      I think the recent lack of male only spaces causes a huge amount of problem for men.

      Its about stopping issued not fixing them once they are a problem.

      All the male spaces I have been in have had guys opening up and getting support.

      But when women are around they just seem to judge men for opening up, or belittle their issues as a joke/ insignificant to women’s, or sometimes they shut it down and blame to patriarchy for not allowing men to open up when they are the ones stopping men from opening up.